What Parents Really Think About the “Gender Wars”

A Panel of Moms Talks Identity, Legislation, and Love

In a climate where gender identity has become a cultural battleground, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent. But in Episode 5 of Odd Moms On Call, our diverse panel of moms brings nuance, honesty, and humanity back to the conversation.

From Oklahoma to Vermont, our panelists share what it’s like to parent through a storm of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and rising political tension.

Britt, a non-binary mom raising a non-binary child, describes the healing of helping her kids find the words they never had.

Jess, a psychologist in South Carolina, shares what it means to support trans youth when medical care is being banned.

Tianna opens up about raising neurodivergent children with love, fluidity, and fierce compassion.

Lindsey, a mom, artist, advocate, and creator of safe spaces, shares how she probes deeper when people point out gender norms.

And Chelsea—non-binary parent, writer, chronic illness warrior —reminds us that kids often grasp what adults complicate.

“Children aren’t too young to learn about gender,” Jess says. “They’re too young to be targeted.”

Why This Episode Matters

The conversation spans legislation, schools, identity exploration, and how parents are creating safe, affirming homes. There’s also humor (Skibidi toilet, anyone?), grace for those still learning, and unflinching honesty.

Importantly, our panelists highlight resources for parents:

• The Trevor Project
  
• ACLU’s LGBTQ+ Rights Tracker
  
• Just Breathe Podcast for LGBTQ Parents
  
• What Are Your Words? – A children’s book on pronouns
  

Our Takeaway

Parenting in 2025 means making space for your child to explore who they are—even if it scares you. Especially then. As Britt says, “You can’t indoctrinate a kid into loving themselves too much.”

If you’re navigating gender identity parenting, know this: you’re not alone. And the kids? They’re alright.

Listen to the full episode here, and let us know your thoughts on the state of The Gender Wars.